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		<title>Don&#039;t Be Anxious</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God” (Phil. 4:6).</p>
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<p>“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every
situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to
God” (Phil. 4:6).&nbsp;</p>



<p>I’m not a Bible scholar. I haven’t been to
seminary, and I’ve never studied ancient Greek. There are plenty of times when
I wonder what a passage of Scripture really means. But in this case, it seems
clear that “anything” means just what it says &#8211; anything.</p>



<p>&#8230; but the coronavirus sounds like it could really
be bad. It could affect me and people I love. <em>Don’t be anxious about
anything.&nbsp;</em></p>



<p>&#8230; but my retirement account just took a big hit
when the stock market crashed. I don’t know what we’ll do. <em>Don’t be anxious
about anything.</em></p>



<p>&#8230; but our national politics are so unsettling.
It’s tearing our country apart and it seems impossible to find common ground. <em>Don’t
be anxious about anything.</em>&nbsp;</p>



<p>&#8230; but my church is a mess. We’d rather fight than
listen, taking a cue from the political arena and forgetting our shared faith
and Christian values.&nbsp;<em>Don’t be anxious about anything.</em></p>



<p>&#8230; but surely Paul didn’t understand how crazy and
complicated our world would be when he wrote those words. He was only
imprisoned, rejected by his own tribe, living under an oppressive military
regime, and without any of the benefits of modern medicine and
technology.&nbsp;</p>



<p>I don’t write this blog as someone who has mastered
the practice of not being anxious. In fact, I agree with one friend who told me
that it’s impossible to be non-anxious. I simply want to remind you (and me)
that “anything” really does mean anything, and call us to become a less anxious
presence by presenting our requests to God in prayer, petition, and
thanksgiving.&nbsp;</p>



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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2020 11:57:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The story of Jesus washing the feet of his disciples is very familiar. If you’re a preacher, you’ve probably taught it many times and may do so again during Holy Week.</p>
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<p>The story of Jesus washing the feet of his disciples is very familiar. If you’re a preacher, you’ve probably taught it many times and may do so again during Holy Week.&nbsp;</p>



<p>This scene has also been the subject of many paintings. In the many ways the scene has been portrayed, one thing that is consistent is the disciples complete focus on Jesus. It would be absurd to portray Peter reading a scroll (or looking at a smart phone) will having his feet washed by the Messiah.</p>



<p>So take moment for self-examination. What is your level of engagement in those moments when you are purposefully in Christ’s presence? I know that he is always with us, but I’m referring to the times when you are studying Scripture, praying, meditating, or intentionally practicing any other spiritual discipline. Does Jesus have your full and complete attention? Are you eagerly watching and listening for what he will say? Or in contrast, if an artist painted your scene, would the picture show you with a distracted expression on your face?</p>



<p>I will admit that this blog is confessional. I have a consistent rhythm of reading the Bible and praying when I get up in the morning. But far too often, I’m distracted by thoughts of an unresolved challenge or a busy agenda that lies ahead. I don’t have an easy solution to this problem, but I’m aware that I wouldn’t want that portrait to be on display for the world to see. And I’m reminded of Jesus’ words to Martha: “You are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed &#8211; or indeed only one.” I will try to remember that the next time I get distracted.&nbsp;</p>


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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Aug 2019 10:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>I don’t know any church or ministry leader that
would say that they intentionally ignore God. We routinely talk about being
dependent on God. So in what ways do your leadership decisions reflect the
influence of the Holy Spirit? How does God shape and set your priorities? </p>


<p>There are a variety of behaviors that signal that
we’re leading mostly from our own strength with little reliance on the Spirit. One
of the places where this tendency is most apparent is in the ways that we
engage in prayer around important organizational decisions. Have you ever seen
any of the following scenarios?</p>


<ul class="wp-block-list"><li>As the meeting begins, the leader says, “Let’s open with a <em>quick</em> prayer and then we’ll get
     started.”</li><li>A leadership team is wrestling with a difficult decision and is
     clearly divided on what to do. Someone says, “We just need to take a
     vote.”</li><li>The team engages in a vigorous debate about pros and cons, but when
     it’s time to pray (if they pray at all), the energy and intensity drops
     noticeably.</li><li>You don’t ask how God has spoken to individual team members about
     the decision because you suspect that no one has really prayed about it.</li></ul>


<p>It’s easy for me to make this list because I’ve fallen
into each of these traps at different times. The first one, in particular, is
both a pet peeve when I observe it and one of my biggest weaknesses. The quick invocation
signals that prayer is obligatory, but the real work is what happens after we
pray. It allows God in the room, but just barely.</p>


<p>I truly believe in the power of prayer and in God’s
ability and desire to guide our decisions.&nbsp;I not only believe in it – I’ve
seen it in action. Of course, the role of prayer in important decisions is a
principle that comes directly from Scripture. I love the description of the
Council at Jerusalem in Acts 15, specifically verse 28 which describes the
resolution of a heated debate with these words: “It seemed good to the Holy
Spirit and to us …” Can you use that phrase to describe the important decisions
in your church or ministry? </p>


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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2019 11:18:51 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>My flight landed in a small airport, and I immediately switched
my phone out of “airplane mode” so that I could check my email. But my phone
didn’t cooperate, instead showing a “no signal” indicator in the top left
corner. I waited a few seconds with no change. So I turned the phone off,
turned it back on, and waited. Still no signal. In the terminal, the results
were the same. I didn’t receive a signal until I was getting into my rental
car. Needless to say, it was a frustrating 15 minutes.</p>


<p>Later that day, I felt the Holy Spirit bring this incident
back to mind. It was as if God was saying, “You were frustrated that your phone
wouldn’t connect. Why don’t you have the same emotions when you’re not
connecting with me?”</p>


<p>Ouch! I couldn’t really argue. Just a couple of days
earlier, I had a very early flight, so I didn’t take the time to read my Bible
and commune with God before leaving for the airport. Nor did I find a quiet
place at the airport for a few minutes of prayer or turn my focus to God once I
boarded the plane. I was too focused on the “important” tasks of the day.</p>


<p>I know that I’m a better person when I set aside time to
start my day with God. Not a hasty prayer as I’m walking out the door but
communing with my Creator in a dedicated, unhurried way. And I know that the
signal from God is never lost but is always available for me. I just need to
not put my spiritual life in “busy mode.”</p>


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