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		<title>Communicating in a Crisis</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2020 10:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Communication is one of a leaders most important responsibilities and most powerful tools. Even though effective communication is known to be vital, it is frequently&#8230;</p>
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<p>Communication is one of a leaders most important responsibilities and most powerful tools.  Even though effective communication is known to be vital, it is frequently overlooked or poorly executed.&nbsp; Patrick Lencioni likes the term CRO &#8211; Chief Reminding Officer &#8211; instead of CEO. It’s a nod to the necessity of regularly reminding people of purpose and priorities. </p>



<p>Especially in this season of anxiety and
uncertainty, leaders need to step up their communication. In &#8220;normal&#8221;
times, communication in a church or ministry may be little more than a listing
of upcoming events with an inspirational or thought-provoking message thrown
in. But this is certainly not a normal time, and the standard communication
pattern doesn’t fit today&#8217;s needs (and probably wasn’t adequate back then).
Your communication should:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list"><li><em>Clearly state what you do know.</em> You don’t have all your
     plans worked out yet, and that&#8217;s OK. You can and should communicate what
     you do know. It may be a &#8220;no sooner than&#8221; date for regathering.
     Or it may be a set of criteria that will guide your decision or the
     listing of people who are making key decisions.&nbsp;</li><li><em>Be honest about what you don’t know.</em> Leaders who claim to have all the answers quickly lose
     credibility. Be willing to say that you don&#8217;t know when you&#8217;ll be able to
     regather or what the protocol will be when you do. This message can be
     particularly effective when coupled with what you do know. For example,
     &#8220;We don&#8217;t know when we&#8217;ll gather again for worship, but we know it
     won&#8217;t be any earlier than mid-June and that we&#8217;ll follow the guidance of
     governmental and medical experts when we do.&#8221;</li><li><em>Remember how little your audience knows.</em> You&#8217;re probably absorbing a lot of content to inform your
     decisions. But most of your audience is not. They aren&#8217;t thinking about
     all the complexities involved in reopening. They may assume that most
     people&#8217;s attitudes toward regathering are the same as theirs. So your
     messages need to be crafted with this level of innocent ignorance in
     mind.&nbsp;</li><li><em>Offer hopeful glimpses of the present and the future.</em> I continue to hear encouraging stories about the creative ministry
     that is occurring in this season. Are your people hearing those stories?
     You don&#8217;t want them to have the impression that God&#8217;s work through your
     church or ministry has shut down. But if you&#8217;re not sharing stories about
     what is happening, that&#8217;s exactly the impression they will be left with.</li><li><em>Keep the mission in focus.</em> When everything is
     changing, how do we decide what to do or not do, what&#8217;s important and what
     isn&#8217;t? The answer should be that the organization&#8217;s mission is the guiding
     light through which all decisions are filtered. So make sure to keep the
     mission at the forefront in all of your communication.</li></ul>



<p>I’m not suggesting that one leader is responsible
for all communication. But you can begin the conversation about how to maximize
the impact of your outgoing messages match.</p>



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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2020 10:51:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>One pastor that I talked to last week has ordered a batch of infrared thermometers, in anticipation of doing temperature checks at the door when&#8230;</p>
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<p>One pastor that I talked to last week has ordered a batch of
infrared thermometers, in anticipation of doing temperature checks at the door when
his church reopens for worship. I don’t know if that’s the right move or not,
but I want to suggest a different step that can be taken earlier and that is
much less expensive. Let’s check the pulse of the congregation before we take their
temperature.</p>



<p>Specifically, I think a series of “pulse surveys” can help you make wise decisions about when and how to begin gathering again. A brief (2-3 minute), online survey can give leaders input on what the congregation is thinking. By keeping it short, the same survey can be sent every 2 weeks to get a trend line on the changes in opinions and attitudes.</p>



<p>Why bother with a survey? Before you go through all the effort to reopen, wouldn’t you want to know if anyone will show up? Or when you get an angry email about your “online only” model, wouldn’t it be helpful to know if that person is part of a very small minority that happens to be very loud? And wouldn’t all of your congregation appreciate knowing that their leaders are listening?</p>



<p>A survey is not a vote, and you can’t guarantee that it will
be representative of the whole congregation. It is certainly not a substitute
for prayerful discernment. But it is a tool that leaders can use to help navigate
uncertain times. </p>



<p>An example survey follows. Feel free to revise this example
and use it in your congregation. If you want to see what the survey looks like
in Survey Monkey, <a href="https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/L3XS679">click here</a>.
</p>



<p>Introduction: Our church leadership is prayerfully and
thoughtfully exploring how our congregation can begin to gather again. Most
importantly, we are seeking God’s guidance in these decisions. We are also paying
close attention to the orders and advice of our governmental officials and
health experts. We want to hear from you as another importance source of input.
Would you please take 5 minutes to complete this survey?</p>



<ol class="wp-block-list"><li>Have you participated in one of our online
worship services in the last several weeks? (Yes / No)</li><li>If you have participated in one of our online
worship services, did you experience worship and God’s presence more or less online
compared to in-person worship? (More / About the same / Less) <em>Comment: this
question intentionally avoids asking what they “like” or “prefer.”</em> </li><li>Have you participated in an online small group
or Bible study class in the last several weeks? (Yes / No)</li><li>Are you in one of the groups that the CDC and health
experts have identified as higher risk for serious health issues from covid-19?
(Yes / No) <em>Comment: The answer to this question is likely to have a direct
bearing on how they answer other questions. </em></li><li>If we began offering in-person worship soon, how
likely is it that you would attend? (Likely / Depends on the safety precautions
that are in place / Unlikely) <em>Comment: “Safety precautions” are not spelled
out in order to keep the survey quick and simple.</em></li><li>If we began offering in-person worship soon,
would you be comfortable bringing a relative or close friend who is in one of the
higher risk groups? (Yes / Depends on the safety precautions that are in place
/ No) <em>Comment: This and the next question are optional, but I believe they could
be particularly informative.)</em></li><li>If we began offering in-person worship soon,
would you be comfortable bringing a child or grandchild? (Yes / Depends on the safety
precautions that are in place / No / Not applicable)</li><li>One possible first “phase” for our congregation
is to gather in small groups in homes. Groups could participate in the online
worship service together and then discuss the sermon. What is your reaction to
this idea? (I prefer a small group gathering for our first phase / I prefer
in-person worship at the church / I am not in a group but would be willing to
join one to participate / I am not in a group and am not interested in joining
one / I would not participate either in a small group or larger worship gathering)
<em>Comment: This question should only be asked if it is being considered as a first
phase. Wording should be revised to fit your context.</em></li><li>Which of the following activities are you either
currently doing or currently willing to do? Check all that apply. (Going to
work in an essential job / Going to work in a non-essential job / Going to the
grocery store / Getting take-out or delivered food from a restaurant / Eating
out in a restaurant / Going to a gym to work out / Getting a haircut / Going to
a store to shop for non-essential items) <em>Comment: This question paints a broader
picture of what they will or won’t do.</em></li><li>What
is your age? (Under 20 / 20-29 / 30-39 / 40-49 / 50-59 / 60-69 / 70 or older) <em>Comment:
This allows segmentation of answers based on age. I have not included other
demographic questions in order to keep the survey short.</em></li><li>Is
there any other input you want to offer to church leaders as we continue to
prayerfully consider our next steps? (Open-ended) <em>Comment: Open-ended questions
take longer to answer and to tabulate, so this is the only one on this survey.
This question is not shown in the online survey. </em></li></ol>



<p>Would a survey like this be a helpful way for you to get the
congregation’s pulse? </p>



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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Nov 2017 11:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>				<![CDATA[<a href="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/Astros-World-Series.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2843" src="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/Astros-World-Series.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>This year&#8217;s World Series was one of the most entertaining in recent memory as the Houston Astros defeated the Los Angeles Dodgers in 7 games. But if you follow baseball, you know that the Astros haven&#8217;t always been entertaining. Just 5 years ago, they were the &#8220;Lastros.&#8221; They had the worst record in baseball in 2011, 2012, and 2013.
While there were many ingredients in their success, here are 4 lessons that are particularly relevant for turnaround organizations and their leaders:


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<li><em>Rebuilding takes time.</em> In 2010, the Astros decided to rebuild from the bottom up. They began drafting talented players who eventually became the stars of the 2017 World Series. But they weren&#8217;t stars immediately. The team&#8217;s leadership had to suffer through several difficult years while allowing these players to improve. Ministry leaders often waste time and energy looking for quick fixes that never materialize rather than developing a rebuilding plan that might work.</li>


 	

<li><em>Talent must be developed intentionally.</em> Drafting great players is just a starting point. The Astros&#8217; coaches had to work with each player to unlock their full potential. Two veterans who were added to the roster in the off-season (Brian McCann and Carlos Beltran) provided mentoring and leadership for younger teammates. Many churches and non-profits have talented people on their bench who need to be invited to get in the game and coached to develop their capabilities.</li>


 	

<li><em>Big, risky bets may be required.</em> During the playoff run, The Astros looked like geniuses for their late season acquisition of pitcher Justin Verlander. It was not a cheap deal. And Verlander&#8217;s 10-8 record in the first half of the season was no predictor of how well he would perform in the playoffs. Ministry leaders should not gamble foolishly, but they can’t win by playing it safe either.</li>


 	

<li><em>Success is never guaranteed</em>. Even though the Astros management was committed to the bottom-up rebuilding strategy, there was no guarantee that it would work. Top draft picks can fizzle out (in fact, at least one did). The team’s leaders were committed to seeing the strategy to its completion. Ministry leaders should recognize the cost and uncertainties before embarking on a long-term rebuilding strategy.</li>


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What steps do you need to take to build a winning team?
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2016 10:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>				<![CDATA[One of the roles that second chair leaders often play is that of being a “truth teller.” They are the ones who shine the spotlight on the areas where improvement is needed. The difficult conversation may be with those who work for them or with their boss. In most cases, the truth telling role is not one that they enjoy, but it’s one that they play out of a deep sense of obligation and a desire to help their church or ministry reach its potential.
I’ve always considered myself one of those truth tellers, but I was recently shown an important truth about truth telling that gave me a new perspective. In 2 Samuel 6, King David brings the Ark of the Covenant to Jerusalem. This is done with great fanfare, celebration, and worship. David leads the way, “dancing before the Lord with all his might” (2 Sam. 6:14). One of his wives, Michal, observes this scene and later confronts him for his “undignified” behavior. David doesn’t deny this “truth” about his behavior, but he responds that his whole-hearted worship of the Lord is far more important than his dignity.
Michal tells the truth when she confronts David, but she misses the higher and more important truth. Scripture also tells us that she despises David when she sees him leaping and dancing, an attitude that is undoubtedly evident when she later speaks to him. I don’t want to discourage you from telling the truth, regardless of what chair you occupy in your organization. But like me, you may need to look at this important role a little differently:


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<li>Is it possible that there is a higher truth than your “truth”? What important facts might you not know that would change how you see the truth? How can you practice truth telling while also being open to new information that could change your perspective?</li>


 	

<li>Are you gracious in your truth telling? Even if you are 100% correct in your understanding of the facts, your tone and body language may get in the way of an important message that you need to deliver. If you feel anger rising as you prepare to tell the truth, you may need to wait until later or allow someone else to be the truth teller.</li>


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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2016 14:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>				<![CDATA[The human tendency toward self-interest and self-preservation is a major barrier to organizational transformation, as described in my previous blog. But in churches and ministries, leaders have a powerful force that can counteract this tendency. The work of the Holy Spirit can move people to act in sacrificial ways. I refer to this as spiritual vitality.
If you’re leading in a ministry context, you know the importance of spiritual vitality. But what should you do if this essential element is lacking? Pour your energies into raising the spiritual climate of your congregation. This is far more important than any new initiative or other transformational efforts that you might launch.
So how should you go about raising spiritual vitality? There are no easy prescriptions, but here are a few ideas to consider:


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<li>Vitality tends to spread outward from the core. You can’t lead toward greater vitality unless your spiritual disciplines are solid.</li>


	

<li>Make spiritual maturity and active spiritual disciplines the number one criteria in selecting leaders, especially those who will be in the most visible or significant roles.</li>


	

<li>Disciple those leaders. Encourage their spiritual growth.</li>


	

<li>In your public communications (preaching, teaching, writing), continue to sound the biblical call to a deeper life with God. Don’t shy away from passages that teach on personal sacrifice.</li>


	

<li>Talk regularly about spiritual practices. Hold up examples (testimonials, videos, etc.) of people who are growing in their faith.</li>


	

<li>Be aware of how easily the consumer mindset (“what’s in it for me?”) filters into language about programming and other decisions, and try to avoid this.</li>


	

<li>Anchor all of your leadership decisions in prayer and Scripture.</li>


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It’s often a long process to raise spiritual vitality, but the end result is well worth the wait.
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2015 10:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>				<![CDATA[<a href="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/index.jpg"><img decoding="async" class="alignright  wp-image-2122" alt="index" src="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/index.jpg" width="91" height="114" /></a>On a recent trip, I checked in for my flight and got an electronic boarding pass using the airline&#8217;s app. I didn&#8217;t bother to print the directions to the church where I was speaking because the address was in the contacts on my phone and my map app would show me how to get there. My rental car information was also on my phone, in the calendar, so I went straight to the express desk and was on the way within a few minutes. As I walked from the terminal to the car, the idea for this blog popped into my head, so I dictated a few thoughts into the app that I use for keeping track my notes. When I got to the church, I was able to refresh my memory of the conversations leading up to the event by quickly referring to the online file where I keep notes from phone calls and meetings.
When it comes to technology, I am not an early adopter, but once I start to experience the benefits, I&#8217;m hooked. I enjoy the ways that it simplifies my life and helps me to be more productive. My schedule is packed, so every minute saved is valuable.
I&#8217;m fairly confident that your schedule is packed as well. What would you do if you had an extra 30 minutes every day? How would you use the time to lead more effectively? Perhaps you’d take that time to recharge or reflect on a leadership challenge that needs your attention? You might even give that time back to your family.
I don&#8217;t know which specific technology would give you that extra 30 minutes, but I&#8217;m willing to bet that it exists. Think about repetitive or mundane tasks that you do and look for an app that handles them. Or ask colleagues what they&#8217;ve found that improves their productivity or simplifies their lives. If you&#8217;re not leveraging technology, you&#8217;re missing out on a great way to lead (and live) more effectively.
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2014 12:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>				<![CDATA[<a href="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/images1.jpg"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="alignright  wp-image-1860" style="width: 147px; height: 120px;" alt="images" src="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/images1.jpg" width="236" height="214" /></a>The ad in the Sunday newspaper promoted a new development in the country, about two hours away. The development features large wooded tracts, with a number of the lots being on cul-de-sacs.
People often talk about home ownership being part of the American dream. Sometimes I wonder if that dream is really home ownership on a cul-de-sac. We idealize the cul-de-sac life – the quiet end of a street, where kids can play safely and where we’re not bothered by strangers who are driving through to some other destination.
It makes me wonder: does the cul-de-sac dream spill over into your church? Do many of the members hold to the unspoken ideal of a nice, quiet church where they know everyone and where they’re not bothered by strangers?
Of course, no one will publicly admit to feeling this way, but take a look around for the signs. Do “non-residents” feel welcome? Is there a unique language that is only understood by people who live there? If you look at their activities, are the “play dates” only with those that they already know well? Are “safe” ministry ideas prioritized over ones that are riskier or more adventuresome?
I’d like to live on a cul-de-sac too. And if I’m honest, there are days when I want my church to be one. I just know that’s not what God wants.
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2013 11:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>				<![CDATA[<span style="color: #000000;">I<a href="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Base_Camp_and_Climbing_5841.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignright  wp-image-1445" alt="Base_Camp_and_Climbing_5841" src="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Base_Camp_and_Climbing_5841.jpg" width="330" height="223" srcset="https://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Base_Camp_and_Climbing_5841.jpg 787w, https://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Base_Camp_and_Climbing_5841-300x202.jpg 300w, https://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Base_Camp_and_Climbing_5841-768x517.jpg 768w" sizes="(max-width: 330px) 100vw, 330px" /></a> recently read a </span><a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2013/11/your-incoming-process.html"><span style="color: #0000ff;">blog by Seth Godin</span></a><span style="color: #000000;"> in which he said: “Halfway up Everest, it makes no sense to have a discussion about climbing K2 instead.” Now to be fair, the main point of his blog is that we need to be open to new ideas. But Godin also recognizes that we reach a point where we need to commit to a course of action.</span>
<span style="color: #000000;">Godin’s quote may seem like nonsense (would anyone really do this?), but some leaders seem to constantly change the mountain that they are attempting to climb. This is just one of the mountain-climbing traps that leaders can fall into. If you want to conquer Everest, you need to avoid three common problems:</span>


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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><i>Never declaring Everest.</i> Some leaders never identify the major goal that they are trying to reach. Perhaps they’re trying to keep their options open. Or maybe they think that naming a huge challenge will frighten others in the organization. But a failure to declare what is most important will produce about the same results as climbing a mountain without the proper gear.</span></li>


	

<li><span style="color: #000000;"><i>Declaring everything to be Everest</i>. Other leaders are quite willing to say, “This is <span style="text-decoration: underline;">the</span> most important opportunity (or challenge) that we’re facing.” The problem is that they make the declaration every few weeks, and “this” is always different. Climbing to the top of the world takes a lot of planning and preparation. So does tackling a culture-shifting initiative in an organization. Changing the goal frequently creates confusion, fatigue, and cynicism, and it leads to poor results.<i></i></span></li>


	

<li><span style="color: #000000;"><i>Treating small hills like Everest</i>. The assault on Everest requires a singular, unwavering focus. Some leaders would like to apply this mindset to every task. They don’t ever want to change plans or priorities. This trait is particularly true of some second chair leaders. And while the disruption of changing major priorities is harmful, it is equally harmful if an organization is so constricted that it never changes. Leaders need to distinguish between the Everest-sized initiatives and those that are much smaller.<i></i></span></li>


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<span style="color: #000000;">Do you tend to fall into one of these traps? Which one, and what can you do to avoid it in the future?</span>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Oct 2013 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>				<![CDATA[<span style="color: #000000;"><a href="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Web_Todd_RefusingMilk_Main201003311208.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1350" alt="Web_Todd_RefusingMilk_Main201003311208" src="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Web_Todd_RefusingMilk_Main201003311208.jpg" width="270" height="195" /></a>An image popped into my head the other day: a toddler drinking from a “sippy cup” with a dribble of milk running down his chin. I was sure that this needed to be a blog, but I didn’t know why the thought occurred to me or what I was supposed to write. Then the words of the psalmist came to mind – “Taste and see that the Lord is good” (Psalm 34:8) – and it started to make sense.</span>
<span style="color: #000000;">A toddler just enjoys the milk and the moment. The dribble of milk is of no concern whatsoever. It’s the parent who is worried about making a mess or being judged for the child’s “sloppiness,” so it’s the parent who is wiping up the dribble. In your leadership, when is the last time that you enjoyed something like this toddler? How long has it been since you were able to genuinely taste and see that the Lord is good? My fear is that it’s been too long. </span>
<span style="color: #000000;">I know that there is a good reason (or lots of reasons) for this. After all, the toddler has no responsibilities. It’s someone else’s job to look after him and care for him. He doesn’t have to care for anyone. Not so for leaders in ministry and other settings. They do have responsibilities. They are expected to lead and shepherd and care for others. When they make a mess, there are real consequences, and there may not be someone standing by to clean it up.</span>
<span style="color: #000000;">I am not suggesting that you abdicate your responsibilities. But I am suggesting that there should be times when you aren’t carrying that heavy burden, when you can just enjoy God’s goodness. I don’t know what those moments look like for you, but you do. They may be focused on your relationship with God – through reading or prayer or worship. Or they may be more about resting in God, knowing that He will keep the world spinning on its axis while you take a break. Let me simply encourage you to find your sippy cup and to not worry about the dribble of milk.</span>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Oct 2013 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>				<![CDATA[<span style="color: #000000;">A grizzly <span style="color: #000000;"><a href="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/r-GRIZZLY-BEAR-large570.jpg"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1346" alt="r-GRIZZLY-BEAR-large570" src="http://mikebonem.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/r-GRIZZLY-BEAR-large570-300x125.jpg" width="192" height="96" /></a></span>bear is a magnificent and powerful creature. If you want to see one in the &#8220;lower 48,&#8221; your best options are either the zoo or one of a handful of national parks. In both cases, you will find human beings who have a responsibility for the grizzlies. They are responsible for caring for and protecting the bears and also for keeping people from getting hurt. </span>
<span style="color: #000000;">But that is where the similarities end between a zookeeper and a park ranger. The zookeeper&#8217;s job is to make sure that the grizzlies stay in their controlled environments, to keep them well fed, and to tend to health concerns. In a national park, the animals are free to roam. Rangers still try to protect bears and humans, but they can&#8217;t use a cage, so they depend on different methods to accomplish this goal. Only in rare occasions will the ranger resort to physical methods such as trapping and relocating a grizzly. </span>
<span style="color: #000000;">In the 8 years since the publication of <i>Leading from the Second Chair</i>, I&#8217;ve had hundreds of conversations with second chair leaders. One of the recurring themes is how to work with a first chair leader that is highly visionary. &#8220;Highly visionary&#8221; is sometimes a nice word for the frustration that these second chairs experience. Other descriptions include ADHD, unfocused, or constantly changing priorities. The inevitable question asked by the second chair is, &#8220;What should I do?&#8221; They see the need to create order, but they&#8217;re not sure how to do this when the one creating the chaos is their boss.</span>
<span style="color: #000000;">My contention is that whenever a second chair leader sees him or herself more as a zookeeper than a park ranger, things will deteriorate. I know of first chair leaders that recognize the chaos that they create, but I don&#8217;t know of any that are willing to be caged. Guided or challenged – yes; but not caged. Greg Surratt of Seacoast Church once told me that the church’s planning process &#8220;keeps my spontaneity from corrupting the organization.” In this case, Greg has willingly accepted some restrictions on his freedom because he knows this is best for the church. If second chair leaders try to impose these same boundaries, however, it doesn’t work.</span>
<span style="color: #000000;">Like most analogies, this one can only be taken so far. The grizzly in the wild doesn&#8217;t care at all about the people in the national park. In contrast, the first chair leader should care deeply about the people that he or she is leading. That&#8217;s a key distinction &#8211; if the first chair can become more aware of the ways that certain decisions are impacting people, he or she is much more likely to agree to processes that may feel constraining. Finding the right way to create awareness is a key job for many second chair leaders. </span>
<span style="color: #000000;">So where are you right now? Do you see yourself more as a zookeeper or a park ranger? And if the former, do you need to rethink this?</span>
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