So why would you not know of this impressive feat? One reason is that the general population pays much more attention to singles than doubles. There’s a much better chance that you can name the men’s singles champion (Andy Murray, the first Brit to win in 77 years) or even some of the other highly ranked men’s players (such as Roger Federer and Novak Djokovic) than the Bryan brothers. Earlier in their careers, I wonder if the Bryan twins thought about pursuing separate paths as singles players. After all, that’s where fame and fortunes are made. And yet, if they had done so, it almost certainly would have been a mistake. I’m sure that each is talented enough to have had some success, but nothing like the results that they’re having as a doubles team.
This story brings up two important questions for every leader. First, how are you deciding what path to follow on your career journey? If your decision is based on fame and fortune, rather than your own calling and unique set of gifts, then the end may not be very satisfying. Even in ministry, where we should know better, there is a tremendous temptation to be misled by the bright lights. Somewhere along the way, the Bryan twins realized that doubles tennis, while less prestigious, was their best path.
The second question may not be as obvious: are you paying attention to who you take with you on the career journey? One advantage that the Bryan brothers have over most other doubles teams is the length of time that they’ve been playing together. Plus neither worries that his partner will dump him during a slump. But that’s not all – theirs is obviously much more than just a professional relationship. It must be great fun to have this success with your brother.
Leaders take note: the people you surround yourself with can make all the difference for you and your organization. The longer and more closely that you work with one or a handful of trusted colleagues, the smoother things become. You’re able to anticipate each other’s reactions. You can easily cover for each other when problems arise. You spend less time debating decisions because you’re on the same page. And even if you don’t achieve all of your goals, the journey is a lot more fun with people that you love and enjoy being with. Just ask Bob and Mike Bryan.
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